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Xavier 3 Light Matte Black PendantFinish Matte Black Shade Color Black & White Category Pendant Style Minimalist Option Prop 65, Title 20 Family Xavier Voltage 120 V Number Of Bulbs 3 Backplate Height(in) 0. 75 Backplate Width(in) 5 Bulb Dimmable Yes Canopy 5" W x 0. 75" H Chain Included 72 Depth 16 Material Steel Ship Carton Height(in) 19 Ship Carton Length(in) 19 Ship Carton Width(in) 19 Ship Weight(lbs) 11 Vendor Ship Method UPS Warranty 1 Year From Shipment Date. Terms and
| Finish | Matte Black |
| Shade Color | Black & White |
| Category | Pendant |
| Style | Minimalist |
| Option | Prop 65, Title 20 |
| Family | Xavier |
| Voltage | 120 V |
| Number Of Bulbs | 3 |
| Backplate Height(in) | 0.75 |
| Backplate Width(in) | 5 |
| Bulb Dimmable | Yes |
| Canopy | 5" W x 0.75" H |
| Chain Included | 72 |
| Depth | 16 |
| Material | Steel |
| Ship Carton Height(in) | 19 |
| Ship Carton Length(in) | 19 |
| Ship Carton Width(in) | 19 |
| Ship Weight(lbs) | 11 |
| Vendor Ship Method | UPS |
| Warranty | 1 Year From Shipment Date. Terms and Conditions That Apply. |
| Weight(lbs) | 7 |
| Wire Included | 120 |
| ADA Compliant | No |
| Assembly Required | Easy (20-30 Mins) |
| Bulb Base | E12 Candelabra |
| Bulb Included | No |
| Chain Length(in) | 72 |
| Country of Origin | China |
| Dual Mount Convertible | No |
| Interior or Exterior | Interior |
| Light Direction | Down |
| Location Rating | Damp Rated |
| Max Wattage | 60 W |
| MIN Height(in) | 20 |
| Number of Tiers | 1 |
| Overall Height(in) | 89.5 |
| Prop 65 | Yes |
| Reverse Mountable | No |
| Safety Rating | UL Approved, CUL Approved, CSA Approved |
| Shade Bottom Width(in) | 16 |
| Shade Height(in) | 11.75 |
| Shade Material | Steel |
| Shade Shape | Cone |
| Shade Top Width(in) | 5.25 |
| Shape | Cone |
| Ship Lead Time | 1-2 Days |
| Sloped Ceiling Compatible | Yes |
| Title 20 | Yes |
| Total Shipping Weight(lbs) | 11 |
| Wire Cord Length(in) | 120 |
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★★★★★ 5
Very readable treatment of a difficult topic
I thought the book was very easy to read and written as if Mike was in a room with you chatting about this important topic. I think the book is a great resource for anyone dealing with either personal challenges or interpersonal issues with friends, coworkers or family members. A very informative book that deals with a difficult topic in an easy to read writing style.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 14, 2025
★★★★★ 4
Good read
"I know you were once an child with dreams but I once your child with my own dreams." Is a quote that relates to this book.While it needs to be edited more and some mistakes fixed, this has allowed me and many others to understand our parents better and work towards fixing what they have done or even what they failed to do.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 20, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Guidelines for Self-awareness and change
This book’s focus, to me, was about self-awareness: 1 to what degree were my parents emotionally immature and what impact, if any, did this impact me?; 2. To what degree have I grown and developed in emotional intelligence/nurturing resilience?; and what impact did my behaviors have on my children’s development? An interesting exercise
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Reviewed in the United States on September 25, 2025
★★★★★ 5
This book addresses a rarely discussed issue. Thank you Mike Palm!
Very informative book! Identifying, defining and problem solving is very clear. This book is an easy read as well.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 21, 2025
★★★★★ 5
A Practical Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Immaturity
“The Legacy of Emotionally Immature Parents: Gain Insights and Solutions Across the Generations to Navigate Child-Rearing Challenges, Build Healthy Relationships, and Grow Emotionally” by Mike Palm is the practical guide for parents who couldn’t fully meet emotional needs, and couldn’t give what they didn’t have and the adults still carrying the impact.
The book is quite well structured.
For example, Chapters 1–2 define emotional immaturity, trace its roots and explore how it shows up in family dynamics.
Chapter 3 focuses on breaking the cycle - identifying patterns, using boundaries, mindfulness, and behavioral change tools.
Chapter 5 is on self-care - prioritizing it without guilt, designing routines, balancing family obligations, and practicing emotional detachment.
Chapter 7 tackles forgiveness and building a legacy of emotional maturity.
Overall, this is a practical guide for anyone who grew up feeling emotionally unseen and wants to parent differently.
Highly recommended for parents who recognize emotional immaturity in their upbringing and want to stop the cycle, or anyone wanting to build healthier relationships with family members who may still carry those patterns.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 20, 2026